Bimbo Akintola Reveals Why She Remains Unmarried at 54
Renowned Nollywood actress, Bimbo Akintola, has disclosed the reason for her choice not to seek a new romantic partner.
In a recent interview with actor Emmanuel Ehumadu, 54-year-old Bimbo Akintola revealed that she has not remarried because the love of her life passed away.
“Are you married? “No”, she said when Ehumadu asked about her marital status.
Quizzed on the reason she is yet to be married, the actress stated: “He died…I don’t talk about it but he died. Do you know how long it took me to find him, a very long time but he is gone.
“I don’t believe that you get married for marriage’s sake. If you are not going to be truthful to your vows, then why are you doing it? The person wey me fit does forever for don die. He’s gone. I am not saying that you can’t have two or three loves in your lifetime but do you know how long it took me to find that one that I knew I could stay with.”
She added: “I am also too old to understand red flags when I see it and I think I am too old to manage and say I am doing something just to make other people happy. Who are those people? To make the world happy, I should marry someone so that the world can say you don do am.
“It doesn’t make sense, I don’t care, I really don’t care. No, I won’t do that for anybody. I am always truthful to myself because at the end of the day if someone dies,when you stand in front of God, na you and God, one on one you go answer the question, nobody goes to answer the question for you. So, I am living my life in all truthfulness, being truthful to myself.”
The actress further shared that while she believes in marriage, the man she wanted to spend her life with has passed away.
“I do but the person I did it with is dead, he is gone. I have not seen anybody else and before I saw him I thought it will never happen. I have dated but I have never seen myself marrying those people. I didn’t see those people forever.”
Bimbo Akintola admitted that if she meets someone she can spend the rest of her life with, she is open to remarrying, regardless of her age.
“If I ever see someone and I see forever with that person, I will do it even if I am 82, I will do it but I won’t do it if I don’t see that person.
“I am not able to just stress myself out for anything. Do you know how difficult marriage is? It is difficult, it is very difficult and you will now go on and do it with someone you know you can’t do forever with.”
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