The stakeholders in the society have called for effective policies to enhance parenting methods which will in turn help them to raise their children to reach their full potential in life. This was the focal point of the workshop titled “Evidence-Based Parenting Support to Help Parents Raise Their Children to reach their Full Potential and Life in Abuja, Nigeria.
The Gender Adolescent School Health and Elderly Care (GASHE) Division of the Family Health Department, Federal Ministry of Health, in collaboration with Oxford Policy Engagement Network organised the event.
Director General, of the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons, (NAPTIP) Prof. Fatima Waziri-Azi stressed the need for Parents to be patient with their children as there are resources that parents can tap into, to avoid parents leaving their children into the hands of guardians
“There are evidence-based sustainable resources that can guide parents to in turn also guide their children. This is why a few months ago, I realized that there was a gap, and that gap now informed our collaboration with the Global Parenting Institute of Oxford as much as we have legislations that protect children, we’ll also need policies that also guide and support parents”. She said.
Prof. Waziri-Azi advised that parents in rural areas who give their children out to family members who they feel can support their children have to keep in touch even if they can’t go, they should always call and find out how the child is doing physically and mentally.
CHILD TRAFFICKING
Prof. Waziri-Azi said the policy will help reduce and control cases of child abuse and cases of child trafficking “You don’t expect people to give what they don’t have, so if we have a national policy that guides parents, and give parents the resources to protect their children from nurturing their children, I think we progressively have to transfer progression from whatever”. She said.
PREVENTION
The Director General (NAPTIP), Prof. Fatima Waziri-Azi said NAPTIP will continue to engage community leaders, sensitize them, and keep talking about it. “We must be able when eventually we have a policy, we have to be able to translate that policy into sound bites, we have to be able to just translate that policy into readable and easy, understandable materials like Fijian, like in our local languages, even for the deaf community. We have a lot of abuse going on amongst the deaf community, so the ability for us to include them and translate these resources and policy into audio-visual materials, even for the Blind in Braille is very important”. She added.
On HIV/AIDS and parenting violence, the Head of Advocacy, Global Parenting Initiative Dr. Isang Awah said the programme does not teach parents how to treat HIV/AIDS but it helps parents to positively parent their child, gives parents the skills to relate with their child even if they have HIV or the mother.
“So it gives you the skills to relate with the child in a manner that support the child-like spending time with the child, don’t discriminate the child, don’t stigmatise the child, supporting the child, showing the child positive nurturing care and all of that will go towards bonding with the child and give the child the confidence He/She needs to forge ahead in life.”
